What is ‘Mediation?’

When a relationship ends, the world as you know it can feel like it’s shifting beneath your feet.

An independent, professionally trained Mediator can help you work out arrangements for children and finances.

We are neutral and will not take sides, so we cannot give advice to either of you.

We can help you find a solution that works for you both and we will explain what needs to happen to make an agreement between you legally binding

Does it work?

The process is less stressful, significantly quicker than going to court, and can save you money.

Mediation can help when arrangements you’ve made before need to change, particularly as children grow up.

You do not have to be in the same space for Mediation to take place.

No-one will make you do anything against your wishes

Mediation Success Rate

*An FMC Survey in 2019 found that those who participated in mediation succeeded in reaching complete or partial agreement in over 70% of cases.

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What is the first step?

We invite you to a confidential 1-1 Mediation Information & Assessment Meeting or MIAM, which will last about an hour.

You have an opportunity to tell us about your situation. We tell you about the mediation process and other options for reaching agreements.

We tell you whether your case is suitable, and you can decide whether you want to proceed or explore another option for resolving issues.

We also give you information about other services which provide help and support. For example; counselling, debt advice, or information about how to parent co-operatively after separation.

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What happens next?

If you both agree to try mediation then an appointment can made for your first joint session.

We usually see you both together, either remotely or in person.

We will listen and help you both to work out any issues. (It usually takes between three - five meetings to come to an agreement)

We will discuss your options & what might work best for the future, making sure you both have chance to speak and be heard.

We will tell you when you might need further independent advice on matters such as pensions & we prepare a clear record of any agreed terms, which can be used when taking legal advice.